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Steve AlessiSteve Alessi: Author of Alessi’s Angle, Pastor of Metro Life Church in Miami, Husband of World Renown Worship Leader Mary Alessi and Father of Four.
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Quicksand of Success


I couldn't understand why the little guy was able to push me around the football field like he did. All I knew was that he was making me look real bad in front of the other guys and coaches! I guess I wasn't the athlete I thought I was. Here I am just starting High School and trying to make the Junior Varsity football team at Coral Park when I quickly discovered that I wasn't the "little moose" my neighborhood friends told me I was. These other guys my age were a little tougher than my two sisters and my buddies on the block, and this football program was a lot more difficult to play than the touch football we used to play in the street.

Though I was a pretty strong, little stocky (and cocky I might add) guy, my coaches were all up in my face because I couldn't block the opposing lineman. Finally, after getting chewed out for the umpteenth time, one of my coaches came over and said to me: "Alessi, you're not low enough. Get yourself low and drive through the guy." Next play, the problem was solved and a great lesson was learned that has stayed with me since. Success comes in life when we get and keep ourselves low. I'm referring, of course, to humility.

Borrowing from Pastor David Arnold of Gulf Coast Worship Center and his Morning Muse, he writes an article entitled Head Weight:

There is a story of the mighty Roman general, Titus, who conquered Palestine after waging a long and fierce campaign against the Jewish people. The Jews displayed tremendous courage, and sacrificed greatly in their defense of their homeland. Titus boasted that he was stronger than the God of Israel. If it were otherwise, he said, I would have never been victorious over the people of Israel. Then a voice was heard to say, Titus, you fool! You are a slave to vanity! Do you really believe that you are mightier than God? Why, you will be destroyed by the smallest creature by God. Soon afterwards, an insect of microscopic size entered his nostril. It could not be removed. Infection followed simple irritation, and eventually it destroyed him.

In India, there is a word for those who are conceited and proud. They say they have head weight. Paul speaks of those who become puffed up with pride (1 Timothy 3:6). This is all one word in the Greek. It comes from typhos, smoke, and so literally means wrap in smoke, or besmoked pride that covers him like a fog. It also means delude, which leads to being filled with insane arrogance.

A gourd wound itself around a lofty palm, and in a few weeks climbed to its very top. How old are you? asked the newcomer. About a hundred years. About a hundred years and no taller! Look, I have grown as tall as you in a few days, that took you years. I know very well, replied the palm. Every summer of my life a gourd has climbed up around me as proud as you are, and as short-lived as you will be!

He ends with a great quote that serves as a reminder to get and stay low in life. Conceit is the quicksand of success.

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